Valentine’s Day is a big deal in the United States. It’s an opportunity to celebrate romance and love, but why is Cupid the symbol of this holiday? Let me take you back to ancient times, when Cupid was first worshiped as a god.
Why Is Cupid A Baby?
Cupid the symbol is a baby because he’s so young and perhaps because he’s naturally drawn to love, which is kind of adorable.
Cupid was originally Eros, the Greek god of love, who appeared as an attractive man in early art and poetry. But by the Hellenistic period which spanned from 323 B.C.E. to 31 B.C.E.He’d morphed into the chubby winged child that we know and love today. “Representing Eros as a child, and subordinate to his mother, is a way of containing or limiting the power that love was thought to have over us,” says Catherine Connors, PhD, a classics professor at the University of Washington.
So what does Eros have to do with Cupid? A lot, actually. The Romans reinterpreted many Greek myths, and Eros is no exception. Once he was adopted by Roman culture, he was renamed Cupid, which stems from the word for “desire.”
While his name may have changed over time (especially since his original name was really just a translation), modern representations often conflate Eros and Cupid in the version of the Valentine’s Day Cupid that.
Who Is Cupid The God?
According to Roman mythology, Cupid was a god born of Mercury, the messenger of the gods, and Venus, the goddess of love. Armed with a bow and arrows (they’re on your Valentine’s Day bingo card for a reason), he dealt in love and passion, forcing it upon his victims with the prick of an arrow.
His Greek counterpart has a murkier background. Some early stories claim Eros was a primeval god believed to be the son of Chaos. Later Greek mythology established him as the son of Aphrodite, goddess of love and beauty. Although the identity of his father is unclear, Eros is most commonly said to be the son of Ares, the god of war.
Like the Roman god Cupid, Eros concerned himself with love and passion, making mischief and playing with lives by piercing humans and gods alike with his enchanted arrows.
Was Cupid Always Associated With Romance?
That’s a hard no. Today, the Valentine Cupid is seen as one of the most iconic symbols of love and romance, but his journey to becoming the poster boy for Valentine’s Day was a long one, with some twists along the way.
In the original Greek myths, Eros played with the emotions of both gods and mortals, and not always in the nicest of ways. In one story, he caused the god Apollo to fall in love with the nymph Daphne then made sure the love was unrequited. In other stories, love turned dangerous.
This dark streak could perhaps be traced back to Eros’s mother. In some variations of the legend, Aphrodite became jealous of the human woman (Psyche) Eros had fallen in love with and tricked Eros into putting a spell on the woman. Not surprisingly, the story doesn’t have a happy ending.
Why Does Cupid Have Wings?
Historians see Cupid wings as symbolic. And they’re not unique to Cupid. Eros, too, is depicted as a winged creature in Greek mythology. “It was probably ideas about love being fleeting or capricious that are behind the representation of Eros with wings, which [goes] back to ancient times,” says Connors.
Today’s Valentine Cupid is a nod to both classical gods and Eros’s lover, Psyche. “Sometimes Eros is represented with a female figure with wings; this is Psyche,” says Connors. “This Greek word for ‘soul’ is also the word for ‘butterfly,’ so we know they thought of the soul as a winged being. Images of Eros and Psyche in love are a way of expressing the idea that being in love transforms us as people.”
Cupid Has A Big Role In Pop Culture And It’s Not Just Valentine’s Day
The little cherub has made a bigger mark than you may realize. And no, we’re not talking about the ubiquitous image of Valentine’s Day Cupids. Sure, that little guy has become synonymous with February 14 and Valentine’s Day cards, but his origin story has also inspired some of the most beloved tales of all time.
Yes, he’s appeared in love songs but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have deeper roots in literature. “The most extended literary representation of Cupid is in a novel written in Latin, about 160 C.E., by Apuleius,” says Connors. His Greek counterpart has had a major impact on literature and one of your favorite Disney movies. Eros’s mythological soap opera inspired a literary work that serves as the root of a modern classic: Beauty and the Beast (2017). “[Eros] and Psyche were part of the inspiration for the story of Beauty and the Beast,” says Connors. “In my view, this means that the dancing teapot and candlestick that you remember.
How Did Cupid Become The Valentine’s Day Mascot?
He is associated with love and beauty, so it makes sense that he would be the first Valentine’s Day mascot.
But Cupid wasn’t always a symbol of romance in fact, it wasn’t until centuries later that he was used to represent romantic love. The poet Chaucer may have simply been drawing on earlier folk traditions by associating Valentine’s Day with love and beauty in his poem “The Prologue.”
Visually, the long artistic tradition of depicting Eros/Cupid with his mother, the goddess of love, persisted and was available when Valentine’s cards began to be commercially printed in the mid 19th century. Despite his colorful and complicated past, hopeless romantics everywhere relish the notion of a mischievous yet well intentioned tyke (one who now uses his power for good instead of evil) floating around and matching up those who are destined to be soul mates. That has no doubt contributed to Cupid’s staying power as a Valentine’s Day mascot!